Sometimes you can’t choose who you fall in love with, but you can always choose who you are in a relationship with. Love yourself enough to know your worth.

You will always think that I am not worthy enough for not being considered the way you do to another person. When you give soo much importance to another person, but you won’t get the same part of it, then that’s the time to know your worth.

Some day you question yourself that the efforts you have done for keeping up with your bonds are they even reliable? Why do you have to work soo hard to maintain the rhythm of your relationships? But sometimes you have to work your arse off when the bonds are unrequited one.

The adrenaline rush of yours makes you do all the things you haven’t thought about before because that’s the best way to keep yourself happy, or that is the only thing that makes you happy every time.
But that same rush can violently subdue all your happiness in just a few seconds when you observe that its all unrequited one.

In unrequited connections, you always adore the behavior of another person; you die for there happiness and prioritize them above everything and everyone. But you have to understand that even priorities have wings so they can fly on there own. You cannot retain anyone in your life to make them know your worth, so let them fly. But one day they will return for sure to tell you that they have understood your worth.

They say ‘Unrequited Bonds do not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled, and wounded’.

So let someone else understand your worth, work on yourself, and the best will come.




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